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For the Moms Running on Empty — It’s Time to Put Yourself Back on the List

  • Writer: Mallory Colbert
    Mallory Colbert
  • Oct 26
  • 3 min read

Let’s be honest — some days, it feels like we’re just running from one thing to the next. The lunches, the laundry, the appointments, the endless “Mom, where’s my…?”


By the time we finally sit down, it’s already time to start all over again tomorrow.


We love our families deeply, but let’s also say it: mom life can feel like chaos. And somewhere in all that noise, we disappear a little.


💛 We’re All Just Trying to Hold It Together

If you’ve ever looked around your messy kitchen or glanced at your calendar and thought, “How am I supposed to keep up with all this?” — you’re not alone.

We’re balancing so much more than anyone sees. We’re managing our homes, our kids’ emotions, our work, our relationships — and on top of that, we’re told to take care of ourselves.

But the truth is, self-care isn’t another thing to add to your to-do list. It’s what helps you survive it.


🌿 Finding Calm in the Chaos

We can’t always control the mess or the schedule — but we can create small rhythms that help us breathe again.


Here’s what’s been helping us (and maybe will help you too):

1. We stop trying to do it all at once.

The house doesn’t need to be perfect. The to-do list doesn’t have to be done. We focus on one space, one task, one thing at a time — and give ourselves permission to let the rest wait.


2. We make space for us — even five minutes.

It might be a quiet cup of coffee before the house wakes up. Or a walk after dinner. Or just sitting in silence in the car before going inside. Little moments matter.


3. We write it down so it’s not all in our heads.

Half the stress comes from remembering everything. When we can see our week, our appointments, our goals — it suddenly feels manageable.


4. We let go of “perfect.”

There’s no gold star for the mom who does the most. The win is in finding a rhythm that works for you and your family — not anyone else’s version of balance.


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🕯️ Why Organization Is Self-Care


We usually think of self-care as bubble baths and candles (and yes, please, more of those), but real self-care is also structure.


It’s having a space — like a planner, a notebook, or even a corner of your kitchen counter — where all your chaos can live somewhere other than your brain.


When we can see what’s coming, plan our priorities, and carve out time for ourselves, we start to breathe again. Organization isn’t about being rigid — it’s about creating peace.


💫 We Deserve to Feel Balanced

We’re the heartbeat of our homes. And when we feel centered, everything around us flows more smoothly.


So let’s stop chasing perfection and start creating calm — one page, one plan, one moment of stillness at a time.


💌 Stay in the Loop


If you’ve been craving more balance between mom life and your life, you’ll love what’s coming soon — The Ultimate Mom Planner.

It’s designed to help us juggle the chaos with more grace — blending self-care, home care, and organization into something that actually feels doable.


Subscribe below to get early updates, sneak peeks, and first access when it launches. Because we deserve to feel calm, capable, and cared for — even in the middle of the mess. 💕



 
 
 

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